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The 5 Key Stages of Your Feminine Energy Journey

This post is all about the five key stages you need to go through to learn how to embrace feminine energy.

By the end of this post, you will gain awareness about the 5 key steps you will go through in your journey to rediscover, activate and embody your feminine energy as a modern woman!

By mastering the lessons in each step, you will go from being a woman who feels like a victim of life, love, and relationships, to becoming the queen of your life.

As you read through, realize it is perfectly normal to go back and forth between stages; the feminine is non-linear, and so is your growth. Trying to skip or jump through the stages will exhaust you because you’ll be forcing yourself to embrace feminine energy instead of gently letting go and blooming at the same time.

Stage 1: Femininity Beginner Stage

At this stage, you are likely operating from a place of wounded femininity and/or dominant masculinity, but you are not even aware of your misaligned energies. Some of the things you will find yourself doing are causing drama for attention, chasing and pursuing men, or belittling both the men and women in your life or those who hold different opinions from you. A woman at this stage is largely unaware of the power she holds, and her feminine energy is wounded and deeply suppressed. She will exhibit traits of the wounded feminine.

Stage 2: Femininity Interest Stage

This stage makes room for you to start your femininity journey. If you have dominant masculine energy, burnout and frustration with relationships may make you slow down and question if you are doing the right thing. For the wounded feminine, you will start wondering what your repeating painful patterns are trying to teach you. This is a stage where you start to wonder why things are not working out how they should, and you take the pause to question if you can do things differently.

Stage 3: Femininity Breakthrough Stage

If you’re keen enough during the femininity interest stage on what your life experiences are trying to teach you, you will start to realize that you have limiting beliefs or misconceptions about femininity. Without this stage, you will remain stuck at surface-level femininity that focuses on girly clothes, or outward expressions of femininity. You will start to see the things you want to change about how to live, how to date, how to handle yourself in romantic relations. Your mindset makes a subtle belief system switch that makes it possible for the new paradigm of your femininity to come in.

Stage 4: Rediscovering Your Femininity Stage

In this stage, because of the belief system change within you, your heart is open enough for you to realize that there are parts of you that either need healing or need to be allowed to bloom and come alive. You do the inner work to overcome your misconceptions about femininity, and you begin rediscovering your femininity.Most of your relationship dynamics – with friends, family, and lovers – will change because the way you see yourself changes. Your romantic relationship may not survive if the patterns were so deeply entrenched and your partner is unwilling or unresponsive to your internal core changes.

Stage 5: Harmony Between Your Masculine and Feminine Energy stage.

This is the stage we should all aspire to; it’s beautiful to have the harmony of the masculine and feminine inside of yourself and in your relationships. At this stage, you have embodied both your feminine and masculine energies in a healthy, balanced way. At this stage, it is also easier to have empathy for the imbalance you may experience within yourself and with others because you have embodied the wisdom of the journey. You are able to notice when others are trying to place you in roles that are not yours.

Prompt: Have you identified which stage you are in? In the online course Rediscover, Activate and Embody Your Feminine Energy to Transform Your Relationships, you will learn how to embrace feminine energy, step by step.